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Managing anxiety can feel overwhelming. Try these tips to help better cope with thoughts and feelings getting in the way of your day-to-day.
Anxiety can sometimes feel like it comes out of nowhere. One minute you’re fine. The next minute you’re on edge. Your heart may race. You may even sweat, feel weak or tired, and breathe heavier. And you can’t take your mind off your worries and fears.1
It’s normal to feel stressed and worried sometimes. Maybe you have to give a presentation at work. Or you need to get to the airport on time.
But if these feelings happen often or get in the way of your daily life, it may be time to seek help. It's possible you have an anxiety disorder.2 Anxiety can interfere with your daily routines and emotional health. You may feel physical side effects, like an increased heart rate, headaches and nausea. Some people may lose their appetite or have trouble focusing or sleeping.
"We become anxious when our brain thinks there's a threat. It doesn't matter whether it's real or not. That's our brain's way of staying safe," says Luana Marques, PhD. She's an associate professor of psychology at Harvard Medical School in Boston.
Anxiety disorders are common. They happen to almost 3 out of 10 adults at some point.2 And even with help, it takes time to feel better.
But some good news: You can learn to better manage your anxiety, so that it doesn’t take over your life. Here are seven things you can do to help yourself feel better.
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Talk therapy is one of the most common ways to treat anxiety.2 That’s when you speak with a mental health professional about your worries. They’ll help work through what’s causing your anxiety and help you take steps to manage it.
There are a range of professionals who can help you cope with anxiety, with different educational backgrounds. Here are a few examples:3
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Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a type of talk therapy. It helps you think and react in new ways. Studies suggest that CBT can help lessen symptoms of anxiety.4
Exposure therapy can also help ease anxiety symptoms.1 It’s a CBT method that helps you face your fears instead of hiding from them. It may be used with relaxation exercises.
Depending on your unique needs, part of your care plan could include medication. Medicines like anti-depressant and anti-anxiety drugs can help reduce your symptoms.
But medication and talking through feelings aren’t the only solutions. Your therapist may also suggest some of the following self-help techniques. They may help better manage stress, relax and get back to daily activities you may have been avoiding.
Exercise can help improve your sleep and energy levels.5 Another reason to get moving? When you work out, your brain releases chemicals that can lower anxiety.
A 2019 study showed that exercising for 150 minutes or more a week lowered the odds of having anxiety symptoms by 24%.5 And the more you move, the better. For those people who exercised 300 minutes or more a week, the risk of having anxiety symptoms was 36% lower.6
Managing anxiety may be helped by easing stress in small moments throughout your day. Mindfulness is a great way to de-stress. That’s when you’re fully focused on what’s happening right now. It helps you stay in the moment.7
One small study compared the effects of mindfulness practices and anxiety medication on patients with anxiety. Researchers found that practicing mindfulness could be just as effective as medication in easing anxiety symptoms for some of the study’s participants.8 In fact, anxiety levels dropped by more than 30% for both groups.
Interested in trying? Here are a few ways to practice mindfulness on your own:7
And if you’re wondering, they really work. For example, a 2020 study looked at people who did yoga for three months. More than half of them said they had major improvement in their anxiety symptoms.9
Breathing slowly and deeply can tell your brain to calm the rest of your body. Just five minutes of deep breathing can significantly lower anxiety.10
There are lots of different breathing exercises. The 4‐7‐8 method is a great one for easing anxiety symptoms. Here’s how to do it:
Changing how you talk to yourself may help calm anxiety. Self-talk can have a major impact on our feelings. For example, replacing a stressful thought you have with a more positive one. One small study found that positive self-talk helped athletes. It lowered their anxiety and built their confidence.11
The next time you feel anxious, try this. Instead of being hard on yourself, do the opposite. Ask yourself: What would I say to my best friend in a similar situation?
"By learning to talk to yourself the same way you would your best friend, you are able to challenge negative thoughts," says Marques.
It’s common for people with anxiety to feel like there’s a lot on their mind. It may help to write down your thoughts. You’ll give them a place to live other than in your head. Here are a few ideas:
A review of thousands of journal articles found that journaling can have major mental health perks.12 It’s also low cost and low risk. Just write down how you’re feeling, how you spend your days and what you’re grateful for.12
Seeing a list of what you’re grateful for can help you feel less stress. And it can improve your sense of well-being.
Spending time with other people who have anxiety can help you feel less alone.1 You and your peers can trade tips about how to deal with symptoms.
Your doctor may be able to help you find local support groups. You can also search for them online. One thing to remember: Advice from a support group is not the same as advice from your doctor.1 Always discuss your situation with your care team.
Managing anxiety doesn’t have a one-size-fits-all answer. Experiment with these ideas. Then figure out which ones work best for you.
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